“What do you do?” How to ask for the escort services you want.

Sex isn't a shopping list, and finding out what services your escort offers involves more than just a single question.

“What do you do?” is a question that often comes up during pre-booking discussions with new clients. Unfortunately for all of us in Melbourne, Victoria has some really stupid laws that say we’re not allowed to list ‘services’ in our advertising. It’s very disappointing how little of my bedroom interests I can share with my potential customers! I would love to find the perfect animal-onesie-kinky-sex client, but for all I know he has seen my ads and moved on because I wasn’t able to be specific enough about what I’m into…

Clients often tell me I’m like an adventurous ‘friend with benefits’, whereas I like to consider myself more of an ‘intelligent part-time girlfriend’. I enjoy discovering my lovers’ turn-ons and creating an environment that’s fun, sexy and comfortable. Read on to hear about my most often-requested experiences.

Common ‘Girlfriend Experience’ (GFE) Requests:

  1. A gentle introduction – perhaps a glass of wine or two and a chat in your hotel room, followed by some passionate sexy exploration. Very well suited to those short on time, shy guys or people who are new to escorts (or to sex in general). We can go at whatever pace is comfortable, with connection and mutual pleasure being the most important parts of our time together. This is a great experience, regardless of your level of confidence.
  2. Dinner date – over 6 hours of dining, wining and playtime. I find this appeals to ‘sapiosexual’ gentlemen (those who prefer their women intelligent and engaging) and to my regular clients who always want a thorough catch-up before we get down to business! It gives me the opportunity to really get to know you, as well as tease out some of your desires before we become intimate.
  3. Couples experiences – I am very well-versed in the art of the threesome, and I regularly see couples who are looking to spice up their sex lives. Two or three hours is usually recommended for the best possible experience, and it always involves lots of talk, laughs, massages, and sliding around between the sheets…perhaps even a sexy shower or bath for three if you have the space. For the more adventurous couples I can also provide toys, light BDSM and even additional ladies if you’re looking for something incredible!

Common Fetish Requests

  1. Tie and Tease – this involves bondage, sensation play and a huge amount of cheekiness! I have a great collection of sensory implements and also incorporate my whole body into the experience, with an oil bodyslide also an option. I find this is a great scene for relaxation, as focusing on each different sensation over a long period can bring about intense mindfulness and a meditative sort of relaxation. The longest I have ever managed to tease someone for is two hours, and it was wonderful.
  2. Role play – I love working with clients to come up with unusual scenarios and I have a great collection of costumes – the schoolgirl/headmistress and secretary/boss scenes are popular. I also play some more unusual roles – Catwoman, over-friendly-nextdoor neighbour, surf life saver, and (my personal favourite) bikie gang stand-over woman. The limit is really only your imagination. (Note I will generally act the dominant role, even if I’m playing a schoolgirl or a secretary.)

Specific Activities I’m Often Asked For

Available: Kissing, Covered Oral (with a condom), Full Service (multiple positions), Sixty-Nine (Mutual Oral), Erotic Bodyslide or Massage, Shower for Two
Spanish (COB), Cuddling

Not Available: Anal/Greek, Pegging, Submissive Services, ‘Natural’ oral / BBBJ, Outcalls to Private Residences

Available By Prior Arrangement: Role Plays, Tie & Tease, Sexy Costumes, Toy Show, Striptease, Couples, Doubles (Straight/Lesbian), Watersports, Spanking
Foot Fetish, Latex Costumes, Domination, Body Worship

I really value a client who has taken some time to consider what they want out of a session before getting in contact with me. It’s really important to me that I understand their needs – even if it’s something as simple as ‘I want to feel really relaxed’.

Sometimes I receive inquiries from people who are extremely specific about the things they want to do, and that’s great too…if it’s not something I can provide, I can usually refer them to someone who can. Seeing an escort is a big investment, and just a little planning goes a very long way.

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